Monday, May 02, 2011

betrayal and deceit

BETRAYAL AND DECEIT


Before we start on our regularly scheduled article, two blathering points for your enlightenment. First, for those that failed to, once again despite my best efforts at badgering and belittling, read the comments section, regarding the article on semi-autos. I stand corrected and chastised that it totally skipped my mind to include the Saiga brand AK action full powered round rifles. Which I believe are cheaper than the AR’s. I’m not rescinding my article results, just throwing another contender into the mix. I still feel sacrificing power for accuracy has a lot to recommend to it, being as a half assed hit is better than a mighty and righteous miss ( as if I’m one to talk with my “pie-plate” accuracy Enfields ), but once again this is a “your mileage may vary” type of thing. Okay, second point. Just a thought on bugging out. A lot of things against the practice. Which I bring up once again in light of the Super Size tornado in Alabama. You need to be sheltered in place for your location. My travel trailer gently rocks during an earthquake. A first story cement filled cinder block wall is great for hurricanes. If I had to worry about flooding I’d own a boat, even if I couldn’t afford an engine for it. And for the love of Pete, if you live in a tornado region, have a root cellar or whatever. In the near future, bugging out runs into several problems. Martial law and the need of permits. Gasoline shortage or insane price. Highway robbers. The coming drought in imported Japanese auto/motorcycle replacement parts might render your vehicle non-operational. And even no vehicle at all as more and more of us become unemployed and your pimpin ride is repo’ed.

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We’ve talked about deceit and betrayal from your main squeeze. During the best of times, your wife will leave you in a heartbeat. You can make a point of certain cultures yet to give in to the ease of divorce ( I’m not throwing rocks in my glass house. I’m one of the worst at divorce having practiced it three or four times depending if this one sticks or not ), or how you are a lucky bastard and yours has stuck with you through thick and thin. But the majority of folks see divorce as nothing unusual. If you have kids, the wife holds all the cards. Power politics are always ugly, and I hang my head in shame at being such a dumbass that I let emotion cloud that cold reality. If the bitch CAN leave you, and make a profit at it, most likely she will. Crap, I’m supporting TWO ex-wives right now and am celibate. When wishing for a harem, I didn’t think it would be a non-functional one. Anyway, seeing the evidence of nasty divorces and financial servitude on the part of the male, it is easy to conclude that come the collapse, your wife will more than likely hook up with the neighborhood “bad boy”, rat your supply location out, set you up for murder and the stewpot and not lose wink of sleep over it. You had a great job, bought her treasures and a lifetime of security, but you are soft and weak. The natural predator will attract her, setting her loins afire come the collapse. This is just human nature. You can’t fight human nature. Culture will tame those tendencies quite well in good times, but in bad times human nature wins out. Okay, you all know my thoughts on the AVERAGE American female. You might be different, but most of them I despise. But let’s explore the other side of the coin. Betrayal and deceit by husbands and family members, best friends and tribesmen.

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If you are a crappy wife especially, but even if you are true and giving, your man can still very well look into trading you in for a better model after the collapse. He can justify it any number of different ways. You are a cold fish. You don’t put out enough even if you can be passionate. You fought him tooth and nail about prepping so he feels no remorse about not sharing them. You are old and worthless and there are nice looking young ones out there. Since the odds of #4 ever reading this are remote, I’ll admit it myself. I’m not throwing the bitch out now, even if we don’t have a relationship. I’m a beautiful person and can’t kick her out with no where to go. But, honestly, would I share my food stash with her? Why? If there is no relationship, how much do I owe here? I can’t have every ex-wife lining up with a paw out. I might be rude and harsh, but facts is facts. You can only feed so many people with limited resources ( note to lucky future wife #5- I do stay loyal as long as there is a relationship- I stayed with #4 six or seven years AFTER it was all over but the crying ). But even worse, betrayal wise, will be family. Seeing as how greedy family is over your cooling corpse, fighting over the will ( my ex-sister in law screwed everyone in the family over the inheritance, didn’t even pay off the mortgage to provide a roof over the heads of her four kids, but pissed it all away gambling ), do you think they will behave better when eating to survive is at stake? You are so cute that you think they will be grateful. Family is even worse than strangers, because they feel entitled. Ex #2, in her thirties, a pilot ( trained on my dime- but I’m not bitter ), with almost half of my gross going to child support, and she still felt her mother should bail her out every time it was needed. Even if mom had her own problems and was in poor health. And if you are wondering, yes, I have a lot of dysfunctional relationships.

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If you have family, and they know of your preps, you can be sure they will resort to violence if you don’t take them in. My step-daughter, even in her late twenties, three kids, has absolutely no sense of responsibility and no compunction about using others. I love her like a daughter, but if she showed up after the collapse I would shoot her before I let her near the place. I wouldn’t be able to sleep at night with her there. Got a best friend that wants to help after the collapse? I got your back, bro. Sure he does- if you provide his supplies. Look, I’m not saying everyone will stab you in the back. Some folks will resist temptation. The question is for how long. Only your immediate family, biological, blood related, can be trusted. Everyone else will, it’s only a question of time, justify eliminating you for your supplies ( or even for other reasons such as a scapegoat or as cannon fodder ). No one, certainly not myself, is going to die if there is a way to stay alive. That is not how we are programmed. It is just human nature. Don’t deny it, don’t fight it, but be very aware of it.

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15 comments:

Anonymous said...

trade sex for food...most men will give up the cold fish for a cold beer and a hot steak!

Anonymous said...

Dankins lost it folks.

This is pure crap.

Waste of time.

Anonymous said...

No mention of Osama?

You're out of the loop jimmy boy.

The S will HTF and you won't notice.

Anonymous said...

Jim, there is an old saying about how you can pick your friends but not your family. I would put to you that properly picked friends are as good as or better than family. In this day and age we make the mistake of confusing friends with acquaintances. Remember the old saw about a friend is someone who will help you hide the body. As good a definition as any.
I know you are tight but I think it’s high time you learned to quit buying the cow and just start renting it. You live in fricking Nevada for Christ’s sake. Remember, you won’t be paying for sex but paying them to leave afterwards. Looks to me like you would save a ton of money.
Your advice is spot on regarding women leaving for a ‘better deal’. They can’t be trusted. There will be exceptions but you will not be qualified to judge that. Trust me. If you have any friends then you should get them to weigh in on this. Even then it is a crap shoot. If people were animals then men would be dogs. Dumb, loyal, forgiving; abuse them and they ask for more. Women are cats. Cold, calculating, efficient killers who worry only about themselves.
One last thought; in the prepping world a person who doesn’t contribute that you still provide for is called a ‘protein source’. Keep feeding her.

Anonymous said...

Last night I watched "Hidden In Silence", Jews being hidden by Christians during WWII. There's an interesting part in there about adding "just one more" person to the group -- suffice to say, one thing leads to another, and it is easy to see how this could spiral out of control.
'Mousse

Anonymous said...

People are interesting, I'll give you that.

Unfortunately, until you really test your friends or family you really don't know how they will act in a stressful situation.

Your best friend might crumble or turn on you, while the person you always though was weird might rise to the occasion.

I would definitely work on making a cache at your other place and make sure that #4 doesn't know about it.

Idaho Homesteader

Anonymous said...

You may have pretty hair but your brain is cottage cheese! You're getting weak minded in your advanced years. I can't believe you would keep someone on the dole who doesn't pull their own weight.

Anonymous said...

jim thanks for using the tornados in alabama as an example. living less than 6 miles from where it came through i can tell you there was plenty of warning.those that headed the warning or saw the tornado headed across the state on TV went to a cellar or low small room and survived a few didnt but in a direct hit not much was standing if a person has the property a pit like you have is a must. im lucky the old house i have has a 1950s bomb shelter built off the basement its 12 x15 so plenty of room for 2 with supplys.THE TERM[ WIPED OFF THE FACE OF THE EARTH] applies to a lot of the areas around here but ive never heard of any one getting dug up and scatterd in the wind.a place below the ground to me is a must not a yuppie fantasy.to all have a pit or better it could save your life in a lot of disasters thanks gary in bama

Anonymous said...

7:35 that's the IDEA. To live so that the SHTF and you don't notice right off.

12:37 I sure learned that when my world ended. You just can't tell, all the D&D dice of life get re-rolled and the people (family) you thought you could count on turn a cold shoulder, and the old nut you were simply nice to gives you a free BMW and enough surplus junk to live off of for a year.

One thing I learned and this is as important as bolt-actions people! Don't live in a car that can be repo'd! You are GOING to end up living in your car, escaping in your car, using your car as a one-use-only to get through that one roadblock or gate the puncturing of which saves your ass. A paid-for car is as important as paid for land, every bit as much. It doesn't have to be any fancier than Jim's land. A station wagon, minivan, truck with a topper, anything. Make sure you know how to at least change tires, belts, fluids. Keep spares handy and a spare "brain box" for EMP or police EMP-like stopping devices.

Spud said...

I don't call mine "The Dragon Lady" for nothing. I am a very fortunate man, she would starve before letting me go without, been there done that !
As far as sex goes, well I'm to the point of life that I have serious doubts what all the fuss was about that smelly little patch of skin.Glad the large brain has finally overcame the little one. Some guys go to their graves still sniffin and wondering what happened with their life. Women do have brains, find one which actually uses hers rather than hormones.
I'll trust my wife over anybody else.
You are absolutely correct about friends tho...

Anonymous said...

are you the guy who writes in Bison Survival Blog about supporting leaches on goberment aid?

You know, those people who just consume and don't contribute??
Those people?

And you support someone living with you who contributes nothing to the homestead???

Do you have fever or sick or what? How can I believe anything else you write about being prepared and stocking up and living on junk land etc? When you are contributing to someone being worthless.
Get yourself a goldfish, nice to look at and can go in the stew pot, or garden for fertilizer

Disillusioned One

Solve4ex said...

You are absolutely right about friends. Picture this; you have a friends now, after the collapse you will be in a superior position over him, because you are in charge of the supplies, he will not see you as his friend any more, he will see you as a greedy bastard who makes him work for his food.
Great job Lord Bison, keep up the superior writing.

Rhino said...

I agree with a lot of your points but, My ol lady & I have been tested,Stuck on a roof in a commercial building during Katrina with 80 other sheeple.she was better than almost every man there,in fact she got me out of a elevator when the power went out.She's a Big pain in the ass to live with but I wouldn't trade her in for the finest bitch around.Even without the coochie.

James m Dakin said...

DO- we were together 12 years ( the last three quearters sucked, but still ). I do have some residual loyalty. Plus, she is a "guard" at the compound while I'm at work. So, she does contribute a little. Chill dude.

Anonymous said...

I'm a Number Four, and I read you.